Lifestyle · Relationships

Dating Websites You Should Join

Hello lovelies! People are always giving out about websites that they use for dating. I have used quite a lot of these websites and have found some of the best ones. I met my partner on a dating website – so I haven’t lost hope in most of them ( you shouldn’t either ). These are Dating Websites You Should Join!


Plenty of Fish

This is always my go-to when I suggest dating websites to people. I have found this website so much easier to meet and talk to people on without a problem. You can also limit the age of people who can message you which is a god send. I actually met my partner on this one and have met some amazing people who are now friends through it. This website is more suited for the people that are looking for relationships rather than just fun with no strings attached.



I’m not a big fan of Tinder for a number of reasons but do know people that have met partners etc of this website. Tinder is where you “swipe left” if you’re not interested in the person and “swipe right” if you are – you can only message each other if you have matched which in my eyes, is a good feature that a few other websites are badly missing. This is more suited for people who just want fun, a one off hook up or even just to chat but as I said, I do know people who have found a relationship off it too.



If your more into the kinky or fetish side of things Fetlife is the place for you. I wouldn’t really call it a dating site as it’s more a social networking site more than for dating. Everything is under lock and key, and you can only see profiles if you have an account. You need to sign up with your number but it won’t be attached to your profile. Everyone is really nice and you can have a decent amount of conversations with people on it.


Have you ever used dating sites? Found your partner on a dating site? Let me know in the comments below.

Love, Bee ox


Blogmas · Lifestyle · Personal · Relationships · Tags

The Boyfriend Tag

Hello lovelies! I’ve been wanting to do this post for so long and now since it’s #Blogmas, what’s a better time to be doing this. I have been in a relationship for 11 month’s this month and It’s time to introduce him properly to you lot. This is The Boyfriend Tag!


Q1) Where Did We Meet?

We met the way that most people meet these days. We met on a dating app called Plenty of Fish which I actually had no hope of finding someone but then he popped along!

Q2) Where was our first date?

Our first date was probably to a hotel near his family house. I traveled 260km up to Donegal from Kildare to see him after two weeks of talking. I wasn’t even sure if he said who he said he was. I went to school with his cousin which is crazy so I had hope that he wasn’t a catfish.

Q3) What was your first impression of him?

My first impression was that he was very hands on and he said who he was. We went shopping in Aldi as soon as we met and he carried my suitcase which I thought was so sweet. When we got into the car, he placed his hand on my leg and I just felt so at ease. So kind, nice and affectionate would be my first impression of him.

Q4) When did you both meet the families?

Myself : I met his mum, sister, niece and nephew as soon as I got to Donegal as he lived with them. So February would be when I met his family.

Himself : He met my family in September at my sisters 18th Birthday Party.

Q5) What is his weird habit?

I actually don’t know if he has a weird habit to be honest. He’s just weird in general… I’m so nice!

Q6) How long have we’ve been together?

11 months at the end of the month. We’re saying our anniversary is from when we first started talking which is the 31st of January 2017. So close to being a year.

Q7) Do we have any traditions?

It would have to be having pancakes at like 2am every night when we want a midnight snack.

Q8) First thing you noticed about him?

Would have to be his beard which I loved and now I’m trying to get him to shave it!

Q9) What pisses him off?

It would have to be when I say ” I’ll do something in a minute ” and don’t actually do it for a few hours – that annoys people in general to be honest.

Q10) What do we argue about?

We live together so it has to be who is doing the cooking and cleaning but it’s a mutual effort 99% of the time.

Q11) Who wears the pants in the relationship?

I would love to say both of us but the truth is… I do.. Well I like to think I wear the pants so I probably don’t.


Q12) Does he have any weird obsessions?

He loves to watch educational stuff on YouTube which I don’t get whatsoever but he’s into it so I can’t complain as it keeps him out of trouble.

Q13) If he’s watching TV, what is he watching?

It would either be something to do with Marvel, Family Guy or American Dad.

Q14) What is one talent that he has?

He is an amazing writer and he has a way with words – that is one thing that made me want him even more when we talked.

Q15) What is his favourite type of music?

He is a massive metal and rock head. His favourite band has to be System of a Down – you need to check them out.

Q16) What is one food that he doesn’t like?

Banana’s weirdly – it makes him so sick.

Are you in a relationship? Let me know in the comments below.

Love, Bee ox



Blogtober 2017 · Lifestyle · Moving · Personal · Relationships

Living With Partner Update ( 6 Months )

As you may know from past blog posts is that; I moved in with my Partners family in April and we found our own apartment by May. This is our 6 Month Update I guess – which is crazy that it’s been half a year anyway but it does feel a lot longer.

I moved up to the other side of the country of Ireland which is about 260km away from my home house. It’s a total different world up here with little or no public transport (no trains), cheap alcohol and no McDonald’s close to us which is something I’ve had to get used to quickly.

Settling In

Settling in wasn’t that hard to do but it did take a while for it to feel like home – it still doesn’t really. Everything took a while to come together from Internet to bins but we’ve done it and I’ve never been more proud of each other to be honest and how well we work as a team.

Paying Rent, Bills and Food

This is one of the things that I thought would’ve been difficult but it hasn’t been. We’re on top of everything and everything gets paid on time. Our rent is a bit expensive but it was the only place on the market.

The Relationship

Our relationship has had its ups and downs since moving in with each other but it’s made us stronger. We have learned so much about each other too and I do think I’ve found my soul mate.

Love, Bee ox

Lifestyle · Personal · Relationships

An Open Letter To My Boyfriend

Dear Boyfriend,

I have no clue how I’m going to write this or how you’re going to take this but I’ve had so much on my chest recently but I haven’t been able to say it to you in person. I know your probably going to read this and think what the hell but I do think it’s something that you need to read.

I Don’t Love You Any Less When You Annoy Me : You may get on my nerves, irritate me and all that but my love for you never change. By the end of it, I love you more than I did before.

I Never Really Mean To Try and Push You Away : I need you more than you think I do. I may push you away by not hugging you back, not kissing you back or just ignoring you but I never intentionally mean to push you away.

I Want To Be With You : No matter how hard this relationship gets, I do want to be with you. You make me smile when I’m down. You make me feel safe when I’m vulnerable. The thought of letting you go or loosing you has never crossed my mind, so please remember that.

I’m So Sorry : I know that I never say this straight away as I’m stubborn but I do mean it when I say it. I HATE fighting and arguing with you as much as you hate it. You do always seem to forgive me and we move forward, I have to thank you for that.

Thank You For Everything : I am ever so grateful for everything you have done for me and us. I may not say it a lot but I am so grateful for everything. I love everything about you, as much as you don’t think I do but I do. You are my rock and hopefully I’m yours too.

Love You Lots,
Bee ox

Lifestyle · Moving

First Thoughts After Moving in With Partner

Moving in with someone is a big step right?! You would think so. It’s something that you should give a long hard think about as it could break or make a relationship basically. It’s something that me and my partner had thought about even though we’ve only being together four month’s at the end of May. We have finally moved into our two bedroom apartment in Donegal Town which is 15 minutes from where he grew up. These are just the thoughts that came through my head over the past few days.

Which is the truth as it will either make or break us. The past four month’s that we’ve being together we have never fought and I honestly think we’re strong as we both trust each other. and know what we want in general but it’s a massive thought that keeps on going through my head. It will either make or break us and that’s the scary part as he’s amazing.

This is the truth as we will see each other in a different light in regards to everything as all of the time we’ve spent together has been in his family home, so we’ve always had his Mum on board to help us with the cleaning and cooking. We will also learn a lot about us which is one of the good things about moving in with each other. We will figure out what gets on each others nerves, what food etc we like and a number of other things.

In my head, I do think life will change a lot as we won’t have the creature comforts at home and it will be our own place where we can do what we want, buy what we want and just do whatever really. It’s mutual territory rather than one person just owning it as say’s what needs to be done etc.


Now, this is one of the main things that’s going through my head right now. I am now offically an adult but I have no clue how to adult. This whole thing of getting a place together and having bills to pay is such a scary thing but exciting at the same time. I don’t think anyone knows how to adult when they first set off but let’s hope it comes at some stage as I am scared, like really scared.

Let me know in the comments; if you have moved in with your partner and what your first thoughts were or if you can give me tips on how to adult – it would be muchly appreciated.

Love, Bee ox